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"THE LOOK & SOUND OF LEADERSHIP"
EXECUTIVE COACHING TIPS

A free, searchable archive of Executive Coaching Tips to help you be perceived in the workplace the way you want to be perceived.

  The Exhausted Executive
Many high performers are running on empty. Here are tools to replenish your reserves.
05/10/12
  The Distracted Executive
Trying to get your message through to a distracted person isn't easy. It takes mental energy, preparation and willingness to repeat yourself. But what happens if YOU are the distracted person?
04/05/12
  The Many Parts of You
Recognizing and managing the many, often contradictory, parts of you is crucial to becoming an authentic leader.
03/08/12
  Your Team's Best Interests - Part Two
Engaged and productive employees believe their boss has their best interest at heart.
02/02/12
  Your Team's Best Interests - Part One
Engaged and productive employees believe their boss has their best interest at heart.
01/12/12
  Performance Reviews
Six lessons for delivering meaningful performance reviews.
12/01/11
  Leading Teams
Five questions your team needs to answer if they're all going to move in the same direction. Plus a four-layer pyramid that needs defining.
11/03/11
  Facilitating Open Dialogue
Tips and techniques for the extremely difficult task of getting people to speak openly in public forums—or in private!
10/06/11
  Smiling—The Look of Leadership?
Your smile can be a credibility builder or a credibility killer. How is your smile working for you?
09/01/11
  Leading Change
Navigating the minefield of change is fraught with danger. Here's your road map through change's treacherous terrain.
08/11/11
  Resolving Conflict
Three actions, plus three behaviors, to help warring factions to lay down their arms and get back to work.
07/07/11
  The Power of PowerPoint
PowerPoint can be a blessing but all-too-often is a curse. Here are 8 tips to harness the positive power of PowerPoint.
06/02/11
  Intimacy in Business: Setting Boundaries
The ability to create a sense of intimacy in the workplace leads to deep and long-lasting trust. And it’s not about being personal.
05/05/11
  Stop Giving Away Your Secrets
Transparency is great in business—except when you tip your hand and reveal thoughts and feelings that are better kept to yourself.
04/07/11
  Making Stories Soar
Stories stick with people long after data becomes a blur.
03/03/11
  Leadership & Listening
Two listening behaviors that will get different results and foster collaboration.
02/03/11
  Building Rapport
Rapport is easy when people’s styles match. But when there’s a mismatch, what then?
01/06/11
  Three Little Phrases with Big Impact
Phrases to keep people listening to your data and to get people to comply with your decisions.
12/02/10
  Compassion During Change
When a star performer suddenly declines there’s always a reason. The question is where should you look for the reason?
11/04/10
  Strategic Apologies
Apologies can enhance or damage a relationship. Too few can be as damaging as too many. Here are four apologies—two to emulate, two to avoid.
10/07/10
  Unmasking a Stand-In
Interacting with phantoms from the past is dangerous both personally and professionally.
09/09/10
  The Power of Rehearsal
Rehearsal doesn’t mean reciting by rote.
08/05/10
  Three Words You Should Never Say
Want to boost your credibility? Stop saying these words.
07/08/10
  Don't Take It Personally
Think that insult was about you? Think again!
06/10/10
  Dealing with Emotional Responses
Six tips for handling yourself when faced with others’ emotions.
05/06/10
  Disagree Agreeably
How to disagree without being disagreeable.
04/08/10
  Getting Agreement
Giving instructions without getting agreement is a recipe for disappointment.
03/11/10
  Act "As If"
This fundamental actor’s tool helps you be perceived the way you want to be perceived.
02/11/10
  Assertion Versus Aggression
One builds relationships, the other damages them. Are you clear which is which, and why?
01/14/10
  Leadership & Self-Deception
Our self-limiting behaviors are invisible to us but apparent to others.
12/03/09
  Answering Essay Questions
Avoid a long-winded ramble with this three-step model
11/05/09
  "I hate politics!”
Hating politics puts you out of the game that’s being played around you.
10/08/09
  Networking
A crucial skill even if you’re in your job for life—which you’re not!
09/10/09
  Sorting & Labeling
The communication tool that will set you above the rest.
08/06/09
  “I Talk Too Fast!”
What happens in our brains when we hear someone talk “too fast.”
07/09/09
  Positive Opposites
Dichotomies are great learning tools—when they’re framed positively.
06/11/09
  Choosing Persistence
Two stories to fuel persistence in the face of frustrations.
05/14/09
  A Difficult Conversation
Discussing touchy, even explosive, subjects.
04/16/09
  Be Impeccable with Your Word
Hold yourself accountable for what comes out of your mouth.
03/19/09
  Focus in the Face of Distractions
Results are important and so is how they’re achieved.
02/19/09
  Elevator Speeches
Create crisp executive summaries of everyday topics.
01/22/09
  Messaging During Hard Times
A time-tested formula for communicating in difficult times.
12/11/08
  What Compelling Speakers Share
Two qualities that will keep your listeners listening.
11/20/08
  Managing Bad Behavior
“Repeated Headlines” can rein in ongoing bad behavior.
10/30/08
  Project The Image You Want
Manage how you’re perceived in the workplace.
10/09/08
  Answer What’s Asked
How to sound executive when answering questions.
09/18/08
  Coaching Versus Therapy
Determining what coaching is and what it isn’t.
08/28/08
  When Learning Makes Things Worse
Integrating new behaviors may actually send you backwards.
08/07/08
  Who's Coachable?
Can your direct reports be coached to achieve their potential? Can you?
07/17/08
  Creating Charisma
Turn up your heat from a gentle simmer to a rolling boil.
06/26/08
  Ask For What You Want
Give yourself permission to ask without apology or fear.
06/05/08
  Discussing Difficult Behaviors
How to successfully prepare for those difficult conversations.
05/15/08
  Being Concise
A critical skill that most of us don’t do well.
04/24/08
  Handling Feedback Effectively
Sound non-defensive when facing The Feedback Paradox.
04/03/08
  Assume Equality
How to stand tall when you’ve collapsed in the past.
03/13/08
  Act with Intention
Consciously choosing how people will experience you.
02/21/08
  The Art of Chat
Four ways to improve this crucial relationship-building skill.
01/31/08
  Choosing Stories Over "Truth"
Beware! You may be reacting to a story, not “truth.”
01/10/08
  Driving Your Message Home
4 tools to make your messages stick.
12/13/07
  Owning Miscommunications
Phrases to lower barriers and remove blame.
11/15/07
  Becoming More Expressive
4 ways to expand and improve your style.
10/25/07
  The Look & Sound of Self-Esteem
Tools for building self-esteem in the workplace.
10/04/07
  Reading Resources
A bibliography (with commentary) to spur your development.
09/12/07
  Handling Defensive Behaviors
3 tools to de-escalate explosive, emotional responses in others.
08/22/07
  Keeping Repeated Material Fresh
How to stay fresh when you have to say the same thing again and again.
08/02/07
  Managing Your Boss
A primer on one of the most important tasks you should be doing daily.
07/12/07
  Giving Powerful Feedback
Models and scripts for delivering a steady stream of healthy feedback.
06/13/07
  Leadership Behaviors in Meetings
Your audience is all around you during meetings. Are you winning them over?
05/23/07
  Self-Knowledge as Leadership
Mapping the crucial journey towards understanding yourself.
05/3/07
  Women as Powerful Communicators
Dr. Lois Frankel gives communications coaching.
04/11/07
  Building Trust
Introducing a key behavior without which there cannot be trust.
03/14/07
  Repairing Damaged Relationships
Examining your part in what’s going wrong.
02/22/07
  Questions as Leadership
3 ways to use questions as a leadership tool.
02/01/07
  How Behaviors Change
2 critical skills for creating long-lasting change
01/10/07
  Smoothing Harsh Edges
Being right is great—except when it’s abrasive.
12/06/06
  Speed of Thought
Exploring one communication’s biggest success factors.
11/15/06
  Negative Self-Talk
Quieting the inner voice that lies to you.
10/25/06
  Eliminating Distractions
Mastering the art of staying focused despite distractions.
10/04/06
  Staying on Track
Stop ricochetting around as a communicator.
09/14/06
  Playback as Feedback
Getting over the knee-jerk reaction, “I hate my voice on tape.”
08/23/06
  Holding People Accountable
4 simple steps to get agreement and create accountability.
08/02/06
  Speaking for Yourself
The power, clarity and authenticity of “I” statements.
07/12/06
  Sounding Well-Spoken
3 questions to ask yourself before you open your mouth.
06/21/06
  Remembering Names
5 steps for improving this critical skill.
05/31/06
  Delivering Tough Feedback
3 steps to be successful at a tough task.
05/10/06
  Getting Growth Acknowledged
Helping others notice your development without bragging.
04/19/06
  Managing Nervousness
A proven method to stop the fight with your nervousness.
03/30/06
  Sounding Executive
4 ways to find the right altitude for executives.
03/08/06
  Listen Without an Agenda
3 tools to change the way you listen.
02/15/06
  Leading With Your Heart
Inspire others by showing emotion.
01/25/06
  Accessing Your Best Thinking
Slow yourself down so you can go faster.
01/04/06
  Your Workspace as Calling Card
Create positive impressions through your surroundings.
12/14/05
  Getting Good Feedback
5 behaviors for finding out what people really think of you.
11/22/05
  Managing Your Strengths
Rather than turn up the volume on what you already do well, develop complimentary strengths.
11/02/05
  Creating Clarity
Five Tools for Getting Heard.
10/13/05
  Story—The Ultimate Persuader
3 tools for crafting business stories that stick.
09/21/05
  Choose the Impression You Make
What you’re telling people when you don’t think you’re saying anything.
08/31/05
  Compelling Openings
3 tools for grabbing your listeners from the first moment.
08/09/05
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